Female Erogenous Zones

Before we work our way down the list of female sweet spots I should qualify something I said last time about erogenous zones and foreplay. At no time did I mean that you should only engage these zones for the purposes of foreplay. As a matter of practice, you should familiarize yourself with these spots to keep things interesting. Every once in a while its a great idea to just tantalize for the sake of pleasure and not as a preview to sex. The whole idea is to keep your relationship unpredictable. When things become routine, interests start to wax and wane. Wax is bad enough, but waning? Real bad.

Anyhoo for those taking notes, let's start with the female erogenous zones and talk about what works best.


Neck - Not just any part of the neck, but the BACK of the neck. Starting in the hollow part behind her ear, try to just barely brush the surface of her skin with your breath before initiating light contact. The goal is to try to keep the touch light enough to be noticed, but not so light that it starts to tickle. Kissing is always a plus, but remember to measure her state of euphoria based on how deep she is breathing.


Breasts - I know its another obvious zone, but try to avoid going immediately to the nipples. The whole breast area is sensitive from the bottom of the neck so start nibbling or touching her collar bone. Start by making small circles and gradually spread them out until you cup your hand gently under her breasts. The nipples should be your eventual destination, not the first.

Ribs - Not the entire rib cage, but the area closer to the breasts. Press gently and follow the lines of her ribs to- wards her breasts, but stop short of her actual breasts. You can use your tongue, fingers, or even the tip of your nose. If you want to add a little spice, try the tip of a feather or a Q-tip! Use your imagination (I know you've got one).


Navel - This is another one of those love/hate zones. Find out if this tickles her fancy before you try it. If she's into it; use anything from your tongue to a strawberry. Don't make me explain the fruit...


Inner Thighs - It sounds obvious, but don't just use her thighs as an expressway to her genitals. Spend some serious time caressing the inside of her legs and tease her by stopp- ing just short of the mark. The thighs are one of your best choices for massage oils or lotions.


Back of the Knees - Women know enough to put perfume back here so make sure you take the time to notice. Its also a very ticklish spot for some, so you would do better to kiss her gently and work her way to the inside of her thighs.

Toes - I hear toe sucking goes over big for some, but I was amazed to find out how many haven't tried this. I guess it goes without saying that practicing good hygiene is cruc- ial before trying this. If you want to start slow, caress her toes while giving her a foot massage and work between. I don't know any woman who would turn down a foot massage, so your chances of playing footsie look pretty good.

Again, these erogenous zones are the established ones, but it doesn't mean that all women want attention in all spots. If you've made a resolution to keep communications clear, start by establishing where she likes to be touched. If she's not sure which zones are her favorite? I guess you'll have to go on a little fact finding mission. I don't really see any down side here do you?